We all have limiting childhood money beliefs that need to be heard so they can be released. Thankfully the Energetic Coaching sessions I offer are fantastic at working through this energy that is blocking us. This blog is in response to a question one of my students raised on what to do if you are worried about passing on your childhood money beliefs to your own children.
Energetic coaching sessions are one of my favorite things to do. I am a spur of the moment kind of person, so facilitating Energetic Coaching sessions is the perfect fit for me and so much fun, as all I have to do is to show up and my healing guides direct the session helping each participants to let go of what is blocking them from manifesting a life they are meant to live. If you are interested in experiencing Energetic Coaching sessions, be sure to read to the end when I’ll be sharing about the upcoming INTUITIVE DIVE EXPERIENCE…which includes 21 sessions!!
Clearing your Childhood Money Beliefs
Last week in the Energetic Coaching session we were focusing on clearing some beliefs that came up for the participants that were created in their childhood. Especially connected to self-worth and money. What you are manifesting today regarding health, abundance and lifestyle is directly connected to what you saw growing up.
As we conducted the session, I, along with my healing guides, determined what emotions, feelings or beliefs of each participant was ready to be heard so that energy could be released. Then it no longer blocks them from being fully present and manifesting their truth.
How you can Avoid Making the Same Mistakes with your Children
After the session, one of my students asked me a great question! She shared that she too had a very difficult childhood, and it affected her in many ways, especially with money attraction, which was what we cleared in the session. So she wanted to know what could she do to not make the same mistake as her mom did with her own children.
Here are three points to consider when being concerned about doing it “right” for your children or the people around you:
1. There is more to be seen that what your eyes can see…
I did not have an easy childhood, but I did come to learn that the contrast that I experienced growing up was exactly what I needed to propel me to move to a new country alone. Plus, after all that I’ve been through during my experiences of living abroad, I would not dream of having it any other way!
Today, I understand that sometimes people come into our lives and do horrible things because they love us enough to play the role of villain in our lives and shake things up. Sometimes, they do not know how to act or behave and they just do the best they can at that time. But, I have come to believe that this is all in divine order, and even though it felt horrible growing up with an unbalanced person and feeling all the feelings I had of shame, guilt and not being loved. It pushed me far away from my homeland, and it put me in a position where I can now impact the lives of many clients and students, who are transformed because I let go of the self sabotage and began taking action to fulfil my purpose.
2. What is really right or wrong, or good or bad?
There is no light without the dark, we have been programed to label people or the actions as good or bad and there is a huge cargo of emotions attached to it. For example, if someone calls a children “bad” it has an emotional charge to it, it’s said so the child will feel bad about themselves so they will alter their behaviour. The best thing to teach children is about neutrality – having no charge to the words of others, so it does not affect them. What if being labeled either good or bad did not matter?
Learning to have no judgement around and labeling words, as will as people and their actions, but rather being neutral about what is said will go along way to helping your children be happy throughout their lives.
3. Understand they choose you!
Your child or children chose you with all your manners and way of being. So remember you are the perfect parent to teach them what they need to learn now, until they are ready to fly away…or not fly away…whatever is needed for them to explore and experience life as a human being.
The more you learn to heal yourself and clear your own childhood limiting beliefs, the more you are changing who you are and how you show up for others. That’s why I am super excited about my newest offer!
Get ready to activate your natural intuitive AND self healing abilities! In the INTUITIVE DIVE EXPERIENCE you will experience an energy healing ritual that, when practiced daily, will open you to deeper peace and happiness. You will learn to develop and use your intuition and let go of any blocks in order to create greater physical, emotional and spiritual health.
This course will give you the skills and techniques to listen to your body/energy centers as you increase your intuition and, if you are looking for a new career opportunity, it is the first step to earning a certification to be able to facilitate the Energetic Coaching Sessions for a group.
You can learn more about the program HERE