One of my favorite topics is creating healthy boundaries because when they are misaligned we are unconsciously blocking the right opportunities and blocking ourselves from being the abundant goddesses that we are. So if you want to be more abundant you will love the quick checklist you can use to review and see where you might have some boundaries you need to change!
Your decisions determine your life
What are you allowing to happen in your business and life? Are you respecting your value? Are you standing in your power? Or are you making excuses?
Be really honest and look at this checklist of different situations that all link back in some way to a subconscious negative money belief.
- saying “yes” to a potential client’s request for a discount
- deciding in advance that someone can’t afford to pay your fees
- trading services
- discounting your fees even before being asked
- charging less than others with comparable experience
- charging less because you worry you won’t get the client otherwise
- going over time on your client coaching or consulting sessions
- customizing your packages
- not being paid promptly
- giving service to clients who are behind on payments
- undercharging because you feel guilty about charging more
- not asking for a non-refundable deposit
- letting your spouse, a friend or family member say “no” you can’t do something
- letting yourself be passed over for a raise or promotion
- lending money to someone who is not likely to pay you back
- borrowing money from someone when you’re not sure you’ll pay it back
- not honoring the details of a contract
- allowing someone to not honor the details of a contract with you
- paying overdraft bank fees
- paying bills late
- delaying investing in personal growth
- delaying investing in your career or business
- not having a payoff plan for paying down debt
- paying taxes late
- spending as much as you make, even if you’re income increases
- waiting to begin saving money
- hiding money from your spouse or partner
- feeling resentful about people making more money than you do
- going into debt to purchase luxury items
Can you see how you are engaging in situations that show you where you have boundaries to clear up?! The good news is that by increasing your self awareness using this checklist, you are one step closer to becoming more empowered with your boundaries.
Creating Abundance By Becoming More Empowered
The next step is to let go of your negative money beliefs and release them in order to make a positive impact with any of the checklist situations. I teach this as part of my Sacred Money Archetypes program available through the Abundance 360 Club.
Or you can do just this specific exercise (instead of the full Sacred Money Archetypes program) using my home study “Akashic Records Boundaries Intensive – 11 Days “Creating Healthy Boundaries.”
It is one of the eleven days exercises designed to clear up Boundary Misalignment and Open Up the Channels to allow more abundance in your life.
You can read more about different types of boundaries and related topics I’ve explored in my previous blogs:
4 Boundaries and how they relate to your Sacred Money Archetypes
What your Energetic Field has to do with your Boundaries?
The Correlation between Boundaries and your Inner Child
I’d love to know how you will use the Boundaries Checklist for Creating Abundance and any ah has you have in the comments below.