If you are trying to be liked by everyone chances are you have a I’m not good enough belief! In last week’s Akashic Records healing session, we looked very closely at what is blocking you from transitioning into the new more prosperous and awesome stage of your life,e.g. changing your business, making more money, starting to speak and even upleveling your business, maybe getting ready to do your first event!
In order to do that, whether it is becoming who you want to be or making more money, it is directly connected to feeling good enough! YOU are the first person, who need to believe it, and the others will follow.
In the Akashic Records healing circle, I in partnership with my healing guides helped the participants to let go of something that was blocking them to move into the next step in their life, and one of the themes that really came up to those called to listen to the healing was the “need to be liked”, which is directly connected to the belief of not feeling good enough.
Changing who you are to be liked
What happens is that a lot of people are experiencing situations in their life where they feel they are not good enough, they try to change who they are, because they think if they do so, they will be more liked!
When you are shooting with a very wide range, willing to work with everyone, you end up having to “disguise” yourself, you create this mask that is not you, not 100% authentically because of the fear of if I show up 100% authentically people won’t like me or won’t hire me.
Stop trying to be liked by everyone!
However I would actually invite you to look at it from a different perspective. If I do not talk, write, or show up with all your flaws and personality your ideal client might not relate to you, because you are presenting yourself as someone else, trying to be liked by everyone.
btw… news flash my friend, even if you try to be liked by everyone, there will still be people that won’t like you, sorry to break the news for ya!
Lessons in Authenticity overcoming I’m not Good Enough
Last week I went to an event here in Los Angeles, and there was a keynote speaker that was the perfect example of that. This gentleman is a very successful speaker, he grew up with hearing and speech problems and now he is a speaker, imagine that!! He also plays the piano like no one I know and is very authentic. He stopped the piano session, because some people were not singing along as he’d requested. And he really called them on it. I love him! He is so authentic, he expressed what he needed, some people did not follow his rules and he called them up on it. Risking not to be liked by the whole audience. But by not “needing to be liked” and being himself, I believe he won a lot of people over, including me! I am trying to find him online so I can work with him!
When we ask questions, someone called him a “nice villain” because of that, he was willing to not be liked by everyone so his clients can have results. Here is someone who got over the I am not enough belief. He has the perfect excuse, who am I, I am deaf, why should anyone listen to me.
You are Good Enough!
It starts with yourself, there is no one else in the world more important than you, as you recognize this belief, you can start the healing process and start changing the way you see and value yourself, and as you do, you will notice that others will start to value and respect you and that will reflect in your opportunities that will be open for you. Your relationships and financial life will change for the better.
If you would like to clear this limiting belief and blow through 2 other common limiting beliefs then be sure to register for next live webinar on this page here.
I’d love to hear from you and your own stories of when you’ve experienced the I’m Not Good Enough belief.