This week the energy of “Guilt” was present in EVERYTHING! In the “reading for the week”, in the Akashic Records readings I gave my clients and on the Energetic Coaching Sessions I facilitated for both my tribe in Portuguese and English.
Guilt is a big subject! We all have it, but it is important to not allow guilt to keep you stuck, invisible and not sharing your work in a way that is empowering for you and others. The feeling of guilt prevents people (including myself for many years) to be 100% authentic. The “reading for the week” presented this powerful truth: when we feel guilty we don’t allow our true selves show up!
Many times we just can’t say what is in our heart because we are afraid others will not understand and then judge us.
Working through setting boundaries is a powerful way of being authentic; taking action in alignment to what is right for you.
I’ve been a little overwhelmed myself and realized it was time to reinstate my boundaries. My list in the last 2 weeks grew by 5,000 new people in Brazil, and although I have a big team in Brazil to support the demand, I was getting a lot of questions on my private FB messenger instead of the business fan page. And so, when I went on FB to support my community and students my private inbox was being spammed with cat pictures and things of the genre. Nothing against cats, but I knew it was time to set some boundaries.
So I did it on the FB live, knowing that some would get upset about it, but those that are really there to learn something, would understand and respect my boundaries.
This is what I call cleaning house, letting go of all energy that is not in alignment with you and what you stand for so that those who are ready for transformation can find you.
“Being liked” is a natural need for human beings, so many times, you allow yourself to stay stuck in a situation because somewhere in the past you said what was in your heart and another person didn’t like it, then as you judged yourself for that person being upset you created more guilt around taking action and speaking your truth.
Like many of you, at first I felt guilty thinking about saying things people did not wanted to hear, but if I let that keep going, letting those cat pictures and videos clog my feed, I would not be able to concentrate on my clients that may be messaging me with real questions. So before the live stream, I let go of the concern and guilty feeling that when I set this boundary I may hurt someone and be judged, but I know that those who are ready will actually learn from seeing me model this for them and can do the same in lives.
Allowing guilt over being misunderstood in the past keep you from setting and respecting your boundaries is not serving you. Know there will be people that will not like it. There will be people who will judge you, see it as a sign to clear these energies and people from your life, clearing the space for those who WILL respect you and your boundaries. Seeing in you the person that can take them to where they want to go.
Do not let fear what others will think or feel about you and thus let guilty keep you stuck. Share what is in your heart, and you will be surprised…instead of repelling others you will attract only those people in alignment with you.
Where are you allowing guilt to keep you from living authentically? What boundaries are begging to be set and respected?