In this blog I share how the Akashic Records can help with letting go of grief. This past Friday we were invited to an unconventional party. My husband and his family were close friends with a family when he was growing up. He was especially good friends with one of the boys in that family. They used to have a band, play volleyball and generally be kids. Twenty-five years ago this friend passed in a car accident, leaving behind a recently wed wife, his brother, sister, his parents and many dear people in his life.
On Friday this man’s sister put together a beautiful party celebrating him, with a bar, a rock band and all his friends. It felt like I was stepping into the ’80s. I never met him since I met my husband only 12 years ago, so I didn’t really know anyone. I had time to do a lot of thinking. I thought about his parents and the pain they must have felt 25 years ago, his new wife who lost a husband at a very early age, his brother, sister friends. Soon, my own memories came up.
I lost my cousin 20 years ago when he was 30 years old. Watching my aunt grieve, I saw firsthand how difficult it is for a mother to lose her son. Now she says, ”Most of my friends when they pass won’t have anyone waiting for them. I am lucky because I have a son waiting for me on the other side.” But it took her a while to come to that understanding. A few years after he passed, she actually had to get a pacemaker. It was heartbreaking to see how such deep pain could actually “blow up energetically” her heart chakra, so much so that only a machine could keep your heart beating.
It’s important to let go of old grief and pain.
My aunt and so many others since then have shown me how powerful grief is and how it can affect us all in profound ways – energetically, spiritually, emotionally and even physically. In the group healing circle sessions I offer, I am able to see where in the body people are holding on to pain and sorrow. As you begin to see it, you can start clearing it away layer by layer. It’s a slow process, but important because any time you hold on to feelings of sadness, anger or guilt in your body, you are blocking your natural energy flow and are more likely to stay stuck where you are.
Often, people try to put their pain and grief behind them, but the pain is so big that they do not know what to do with it. So, they energetically put it “behind” them. The danger is that then it often becomes an energetic clutter that stops you from moving forward and sometimes even from being happy again. Nothing stays buried for long. Eventually, it will have to be released.
That is the beauty of connecting with the Akashic Records. When you go in the records you can ask to bring up those relationships where there was no goodbye, when the pain was so gigantic that you shut a lot of feelings down and buried your emotions. It allows you to access those experiences, so that when you are ready to release the old pain you are able to let it emerge and let it breathe so it can pass through. Then you can be free to make space in your life, to welcome healing and new energies, so you can smile again.
Celebrate the blessing of having spent time with that person.
If someone has passed in your life and you have been hiding the pain, it is not a coincidence that you are reading this. Take some time today and have a ceremony for that person. Write a letter, sing, celebrate the blessing of having spent time with that person. As you release those ties to the past, you also release that soul so it can soar. Let go of any guilt you might have for being angry at that person when she was alive or for not saying goodbye. And, above all, celebrate the people you have now. Live, laugh and celebrate each second of your life.
I would love to invite you to comment in this sacred space below. Feel free to share any unsaid words you might not have had a chance to say to your loved ones who passed. I will be blessing the comments and doing a remote healing for those of you who commented.
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You will feel much lighter after the healing. It does not mean you will forget the person, but it means the weight, guilt, or sadness will be released, making space for a new relationship in the astral, until you meet again. This is how we can use the Akashic Records to help us with letting go of grief.