In this blog I share how the Akashic Records can help with letting go of grief. This past Friday we were invited to an unconventional party. My husband and his family were close friends with a family when he was growing up. He was especially good friends with one of the boys in that family. They used to have a band, play volleyball and generally be kids. Twenty-five years ago this friend passed in a car accident, leaving behind a recently wed wife, his brother, sister, his parents and many dear people in his life.

Letting Go of Grief with the Akashic Records

On Friday this man’s sister put together a beautiful party celebrating him, with a bar, a rock band and all his friends. It felt like I was stepping into the ’80s. I never met him since I met my husband only 12 years ago, so I didn’t really know anyone. I had time to do a lot of thinking. I thought about his parents and the pain they must have felt 25 years ago, his new wife who lost a husband at a very early age, his brother, sister friends. Soon, my own memories came up.

I lost my cousin 20 years ago when he was 30 years old. Watching my aunt grieve, I saw firsthand how difficult it is for a mother to lose her son. Now she says, ”Most of my friends when they pass won’t have anyone waiting for them. I am lucky because I have a son waiting for me on the other side.” But it took her a while to come to that understanding. A few years after he passed, she actually had to get a pacemaker. It was heartbreaking to see how such deep pain could actually “blow up energetically” her heart chakra, so much so that only a machine could keep your heart beating.

It's important to let go of old grief and pain.

It’s important to let go of old grief and pain.

My aunt and so many others since then have shown me how powerful grief is and how it can affect us all in profound ways – energetically, spiritually, emotionally and even physically. In the group healing circle sessions I offer, I am able to see where in the body people are holding on to pain and sorrow. As you begin to see it, you can start clearing it away layer by layer. It’s a slow process, but important because any time you hold on to feelings of sadness, anger or guilt in your body, you are blocking your natural energy flow and are more likely to stay stuck where you are.

Often, people try to put their pain and grief behind them, but the pain is so big that they do not know what to do with it. So, they energetically put it “behind” them. The danger is that then it often becomes an energetic clutter that stops you from moving forward and sometimes even from being happy again. Nothing stays buried for long. Eventually, it will have to be released.

That is the beauty of connecting with the Akashic Records. When you go in the records you can ask to bring up those relationships where there was no goodbye, when the pain was so gigantic that you shut a lot of feelings down and buried your emotions. It allows you to access those experiences, so that when you are ready to release the old pain you are able to let it emerge and let it breathe so it can pass through. Then you can be free to make space in your life, to welcome healing and new energies, so you can smile again.

Celebrate the blessing of having spent time with that person.

If someone has passed in your life and you have been hiding the pain, it is not a coincidence that you are reading this. Take some time today and have a ceremony for that person. Write a letter, sing, celebrate the blessing of having spent time with that person. As you release those ties to the past, you also release that soul so it can soar. Let go of any guilt you might have for being angry at that person when she was alive or for not saying goodbye. And, above all, celebrate the people you have now. Live, laugh and celebrate each second of your life.

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I would love to invite you to comment in this sacred space below. Feel free to share any unsaid words you might not have had a chance to say to your loved ones who passed. I will be blessing the comments and doing a remote healing for those of you who commented.
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You will feel much lighter after the healing. It does not mean you will forget the person, but it means the weight, guilt, or sadness will be released, making space for a new relationship in the astral, until you meet again.  This is how we can use the Akashic Records to help us with letting go of grief.


Patricia Missakian
Patricia Missakian

Patricia Missakian is an international Akashic Records Mentor for spiritual entrepreneurs. She is the founder of the Akashic Records Institute, a school for spiritual development, where healers and coaches learn how to develop their intuition and decode the messages found in the Akashic Records. She has helped thousands of students discover their soul purpose and transform the lives of their clients through the Akashic Records. Born in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, Patricia brings together her colorful creativity, positive energy, and unquestionable mystical connection to everything that she does.


    21 replies to "Letting Go of Grief with the Akashic Records"

    • Nara

      Um amigo muito querido faleceu há 4 anos. Alguns dias antes, eu o ouvia me chamando, mas não o procurei. Fiquei muito chateada por isso, sinto que de alguma forma ele estava tentando me avisar, tentando se despedir. Sempre penso nele com gratidão por tudo que ele me ensinou, mas ainda fico triste por não ter telefonado antes de ele partir.

      • Sinto muito pela perda de seu amigo, querida, ficarei honrada de lhe mandar o mp3.

      • Lynn bolton

        Hi, I would totally love some healing for a past life soul trauma I am experiencing. It would help me to move on in this life. Many thanks. Lynn x

    • Donna

      In the last few years, my daughter and I have lost several close friends and family members who have all chosen to take themselves to the other side. We would appreciate the MP3 and any other thoughts for helping to heal this grief. YOU are a Blessing, Patricia!

      • you will receive the guidance during the healing about it for you <3

    • Shylah

      Hello Patricia,
      I am interested in this healing to help with loved ones I have lost as well as life experiences which cause me to grieve. These life experiences include leaving a job after almost ten years on bad terms with co-workers, my divorce and a dysfunctional relationship with my mother.
      Thank you.

      • Absolutely my dear, blessing and healing on the way <3

    • Sheridan Genrich

      Would love to see if this Grief healing mp3 can help through divorce too.
      Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

      • Thank you for commenting Sheridan, will include you and you will receive what you need

    • Christina Morassi

      Patricia! This is SO very beautiful! What a wonderful gift you are offering… And what important work you are doing as well. I would love to benefit from your generous gifts, please! I have done so much work around this, but am always open to more. I graciously receive your support of healing around my brother Dominic’s death of cancer when he was 11 and I was 13. Thank you!

      • Thank you Christina, I am so sorry to hear about your brother, and it will be an honor to send you the mp3 <3

    • Roseanne

      In the past two years, my husband and I have lost his family due to mental illness and extreme conflict, also putting a great deal of strain on our marriage. I lost my best friend and mentor years before that, and for my grandmother, whom I lost in college, and to this day miss tremendously. If you would be willing to send the MP3, I would so appreciate it. Many thanks.

      • oh, Roseanne I am so sorry, absolutely will be sending the mp3, it will probably be this thursday

    • Viviana

      Loved this article Patricia, thank you for writing and sharing it with all of us. I know I carry a lot of grief from many many past experiences. I have done quite a bit to release this from my body but at times it feels as if I have done nothing at all! *sigh* I would so love to receive your mp3!

      Thank you and much love!

      • You are welcome Viviana, absolutely will be sending in a few days the mp3

    • Elissia

      Hi Patricia I really appreciate this blog on Grief & I would love to listen to this Mp3 . I Have recently had a Big Healtg scare with my Heart/ lungs & I know its connected to Relationship issues with Loved ones.

      • Absolutely Elissia it will be an honor <3

    • Tendani Mulaudzi

      Hi Patricia. My cousin, Tepsi Tshiko, who commented below, led me to this article. How open and honest. It is always weirdly comfortable to know that people understand the process of grief. I lost my dad two years ago at the young age of 20. Though he suffered from cancer, his death came as a complete shock to me and I feel that there was so much left unsaid. As a teenage girl, it is sometimes easy to take your parents for granted and I’ve carried the guilt of not spending all the time I could have with him when I had the chance. Although life carries on, it does not get easier. If anything, I miss him more and more every day and I am saddened by the fact that he missed out on my university graduation and I can’t call him every day and tell him about my job and how I am loving what I do. These are daily struggles. But I carry him with me constantly, nevertheless. I would love the copy of the mp3, if possible. Thank you so much for sharing.

    • Melinda

      I am interested in the healing as it helps those that have lost a relationship. Sometimes that feels like you are loosing an actual person to death even though they are still living.

    • Teodora

      Thank you so much! <3

    • […] But it took her a while to come to that understanding. A few years after he passed, she actually had to get a pacemaker. It was heartbreaking to see how such deep pain could actually “blow up energetically” her heart chakra, so much so that only a machine could keep your heart beating. – I talked about that in one of my my blogs: Let go of grief through the Akashic Records, and you can see it here: […]

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