Whenever you find yourself in a situation where it seems there is absolutely no way out…know that you are not alone.
We as human beings naturally have the tendency to be influenced by the environment and people around us…especially if you are sensitive like I am, it can be very difficult to create boundaries for where other people’s energy ends and yours starts.
And then some people around you might even get you to do what they want by using the “tactic” of putting guilt on you.
This gift of sensitivity, pushed me to search for ways to strengthen my gifts, free myself from other people’s energies and dramas, and now though my classes, I help my students to do the same for themselves and their clients.
This is where the power of an Akashic Records Consultation can help you (or your clients) living in drama, whether created by yourself or others around your.
What are the Akashic Records?
The Records is a collection of all your life experiences and memories. Sometimes, we make agreements that were initially useful for our soul’s growth but now no longer serve our highest good. We have gotten the lesson, and do not need to continue to live with these agreements in place. You are reliving a situation that is no longer needed.
But you don’t know about this agreement and so you unconsciously get involved in “drama”. Your soul is calling your attention so you can heal. So you can learn from the experience, and release that agreement. So it comes to help you, but instead of learning from it and healing, many people create more drama and is a vicious cycle.
You want to stay out of other people’s drama. Here are 3 tips that will help:
Know that people can not hurt you, they can however touch the hurt that is inside of you. This is where the Akashic Records can come in so powerfully for you. The only reason you get into peoples’ drama, is because they are speaking to a part of you (a feeling/belief connected to a memory) that hurts. So when they speak to that part it pulls you right in the middle of the drama. So the solution here is to find in the Records the memory that created the hurt. Many times when we experience a particular event we create contracts with ourselves that holds us back. You (or a skilled Consultant) must finds that information in your Records so it can be heard and no longer hold you back.
Drop the need to be liked. Many of us grew up being “polished” to be a good girl or a good boy, years and years of receiving the message of needing to being liked causes you to deny what is in your heart so you can “fit” into another’s ideal of who you are. This creates a lot of problems and can many time get you right in the middle of other people’s circus and monkeys!
Do not get into the hole with them. Many people think that you need to jump into the hole another has carved for themselves in order to save them. And what happens is actually the opposite. You can not help someone if you lower yourself for their level. From inside the hole you can not come out, sometimes the best solution is to remove yourself from the drama situation. I remember when I worked as a graphic designer on a firm, I would go to lunch with coworkers who were only gossipping and complaining about the job, that was when I began studying, reading and meditating instead of joining in the ‘complaint’ pool. As I raised my vibration an amazing opportunitiy opened up for me. SO I learn early on to remove myself from situations or people that cause drama, then it no longer had an effect on me.
Would like to learn more about the Akashic Records? Check out this video series: